Men – Don’t Let This Happen To You!!!

In my post “Doom and Gloom” I said that I donate my time to help men personally, and that I’m currently helping a couple men.

http://foreignwomenonly.blogspot.com/2008/09/doom-and-gloom.html

After that post, I received an email from a man who has been terrorized by the American divorce courts and family courts. He asked for my help finding work abroad. I was able to send him several links to job sites for finding work abroad, and wish I had more resources to offer.

This man has generously agreed to share his powerful testimony regarding his unconstitutional ordeal that has forced him into exile. The story – names and some details may be altered slightly to maintain his anonymity.

Men, don’t let this happen to you!!!

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I’m a 42 year old male who arrived home from a business trip one day to receive the standard about to be a divorced dad package. No warning of course, just locks changed, bank accounts cleaned out, credit cards maxed out, all valuables moved to her parents, and of course a temporary restraining order and false charge of “domestic violence”. I was left with the lesser of our two vehicles, my cell phone, the clothes on my back (from a 3 day business trip), and what I had in my wallet which was about $6.

I went to a friends house to stay the night and try to arrange to see my children but as I couldn’t call my soon to be ex this proved pointless. As the days went by I received a pendite lite hearing granting my wife roughly 70% of my take home salary in spousal and child support. They also granted her full exclusive use of my house and everything in it, the nicer of the two vehicles (for the children!), and ordered me to pay that months mortgage payment + all debts not directly associated with the house (read: our credit cards which she maxed out while I was gone).

With the bank accounts, we had just redid out mortgage (much lower interest rate) and had roughly $40,000 within same not including my monthly salary (take home = $5,480.55). I also received an advance of $1500 from my employer to take the very last class for a master’s degree (which I had to pay my employer back for of course). I am paid once a month and she timed it perfectly. When I got back on the 3rd of the month all but $5 was in our joint accounts and she moved all of the money to a newly opened personal account for her and transferred $15,000 to her parents. To make matters worse all the bills including the mortgage and the bill for my final masters class electronically hit on the 5th, 2 days later. So with $6 available to me and no paycheck till the 1st of next month I was ordered to pay that months mortgage of $1450 (plus late fees as she caused this to bounce), $3,800 in support to her, another $350 in student loans, minimum payments on the credit cards of $300 (this was new I paid these off every month religiously), about $400 in bounced check fees which includes getting money to the doctor/dentist/auto shop etc. because the checks I wrote to them bounced, $1500 to my employer for the class I couldn’t take as she stole the money for it, somehow find a place a live (rent), and of course buy things like food, gas, etc. Plus there was one more very important wrinkle…

I held one of the highest security clearances available and performed only cleared work which helped justify my salary to my employer. If that DV charge stuck or if I received ANYTHING other than a full not guilty I would lose my clearance and my job INSTANTLY. This meant I had to hire a criminal defense attorney also as losing my job would stop all income and woe be to the heretic that violates the sacrament of child support for any reason whatsoever. That scum only deserves jail – bonus points if their injured, in a coma, on deployment, etc.

I was able to scrape together a $14,500 loan from my credit union to pay for all of the above, find a place to live, and hire 2 lawyers, one to cover the divorce and another to fight the domestic violence charge. At the trial for the “Domestic Violence” charge my now ex swore up and down that I had hit her several weeks before right after returning from a business trip. Naturally she was so traumatized by this experience that she just had to “take action” while I was conveniently away so as to protect herself and prevent me from doing this again upon my return. Fortunately my defense lawyer made chutney of her testimony, demanding she point out on a calendar exactly when it happened, what the weather was like (she said it happened outside), etc. Well she stated, and restated that it was sunny out, about 4pm in the afternoon when in fact it was raining on that day and oh yeah… I wouldn’t return for another TWO FULL days, and then it was late at night (no sun), and this day too was rainy – She broke down on the stand and said something to the effect of “Well I know it happened but I don’t remember the facts!!!” Not guilty – $1500 for the defense – no restitution for me for the false charge (it won’t be the last) and of course no punishment for her for making the false charge.

A few weeks later with the not guilty verdict I was able to get the restraining order cancelled. The order getting cancelled was good as she tried more than once to trick me into “meeting her somewhere to talk about things” and used the children as bait. The first time I agreed to meet but had the sense to have a friend drive by the location and watch the place for an hour before she arrived. About 20 minutes before the meeting was to take place she arrived with her father and a sheriff in tow… Gosh wonder what that meeting would have been like with a live restraining order in place?

It took me 5 months of wrangling before I could actually see my children (I have 3 all under 5 years) and the only way this was allowed was for her to meet me at a local restaurant with them. I had to agree to pay for her and my children’s meals as she was a poor single destitute mother of 3 etc. ad nauseum. Well on one of these meetings I receive a call that my truck (handed to her by the judge “FOR THE CHILDREN!!” wouldn’t start. I wanted to see my kids and it had been a few months so like an idiot I agreed to drive us all to the restaurant. 3 weeks later I’m arrested for another false “domestic violence” charge and once again have to pay for a full defense. Seems I “hit” her when I went to pick her up which was of course a lie. Another $1500, no witnesses, no marks, oh and I accidentally recorded the whole meeting with a buttonhole camera that clearly showed I did nothing. I presented this evidence to the judge hoping that this would actually prompt him to consider charges of perjury but I was informed that because of the terrible stress she was under that I should just forgive and forget and oh be a dear and cover the $1500 for my attorney as this is clearly the higher road and what any about to destroyed man should do. Without belaboring this too much another false “Domestic Violence” charge (3rd) was also placed a month later when I was out of town – another $1500, another acquittal.

Right after this my lawyer and her lawyer finally agree on a visitation schedule “graciously” allowing me to see my children twice a month. Naturally she demands I come to the house, alone, sans camera (wants me to sign something promising I won’t bring it), to pick up my children. I refuse and demand we do the exchange at a neutral location with cameras, listing the false charges and attempts to put me in jail whenever we’re alone. Long story short they refuse, and I have to actually take her to court to demand that she drive 5 minutes (3 miles) down the road to a busy gas station with cameras everywhere for the exchange. I have to drive 62 miles from where I am living but 3 miles is just too much for her. I “win” but I am ordered to pay her legal fees incurred while contesting this ($2000 for my lawyer plus another $2500 for hers). By this time I’ve had to take out two more loans from my father to cover the costs of these shenanigans and my soon to be ex absolutely refuses to let me take out an equity loan on my own house as both our names are on it and she wants it all.

Months go by and the time for the final trial is almost upon us. Property settlement agreements are flying back and forth with ridiculous demands coming from the other side including: She keeps everything she stole, I pay off all “mutual” debt, she gets the house, she keeps all family heirlooms including ones from my family, she keeps the truck, my 10 year old car is sold with the proceeds split 70/30 in her favor, I pay her lawyer $20,000, she gets a raise of alimony/child support to $4400 (from $3800), the alimony of $2400 per month would be for *life* (we were married 8 years), she takes all children off her taxes forever (yes this was bizarre I don’t understand it either), she gets the entire tax return for the coming year whatever it is. Obviously I couldn’t agree to any of this and so we went to court… she received: 70% of my house (plus all costs associated with selling it to come out of MY meager share when sold), another $2,500 attorney fees, alimony of $2200 for 15 years (she’s 30), $1600 child support with yearly adjustments, she got to keep ALL furniture, heirlooms, and anything of value she took as it was just too difficult to separate those things as they had been mingled with her parents stuff. I was awarded ALL debt including the credit cards and (bizarrely) the annual home owners association dues of $600 needed to be paid by me. I got to “generously” keep my car. I was also forced to continue to provide health and dental insurance for the children basically forever. The judge went out of her way to emphasize that although this “seems like a lot” it was really for the best and then threatened me with jail if I couldn’t or wouldn’t meet all of these obligations.

Months before I was forced to find additional under the table work (contracting for cash) in order to keep up with the frequent demands placed on me. I was working most weekends so I could never see my kids, and furthermore when the time to see them arrived she’d almost always find some excuse to deny my seeing them. The only relief I had centered on a woman I met 8 months after my ex began this, and I was living with her by her good graces as I could afford to pay no rent. Then it happened… On a rare free weekend I went to pick up my kids and when I arrived at the gas station my ex introduced me to her “friend” who would be babysitting my children and she wanted me to meet her (very magnanimous no?). My ex then handed me a pack of pictures for my daughter (her first year in school) and told me there was an order form inside where I could get some more. I pulled out the form and pictures, noted the prices listed on the form, and stuffed it back into the envelope. I couldn’t afford to order pics but I could at least scan the ones provided for free and maybe blow them up and print them at work. 3 weeks later I receive a nasty note from her lawyer lauding his performance in court and cynically chiding me for the outcome. Apparently my ex decided that the ‘stimulus’ package should be hers and she should also be compensated for the hot water heater and roof repair on “my” house so she could sell it and take the money. I claimed I was never served with such a notice AS IT NEVER OCCURRED TO ME TO LOOK INSIDE THE PICTURE ENVELOPE WHERE, TAPED FACE DOWN TO THE BACK AND INSIDE, WAS A SUMMONS. Seems the “babysitter” and “friend” (she is both actually) was also a part time process server and she testified that she handed it to me legally. The gas station tapes had already been recorded over so I couldn’t get them as proof and they knew it. Since I wasn’t there, my ex won everything she demanded and then some. Another $12,500 for house repairs (how they arrived at this number I have no idea), $5,000 more for attorney fees, the entire stimulus package, and my portion of the tax return I guess to teach me a lesson.

I didn’t have anything close to the amount of money they were demanding and my house wasn’t selling in this market. To add insult to injury I received a note from the Dept Homeland Security stating that even though I was innocent of the three false DV charges they felt that a “reinvestigation” should take place before allowing me to perform any more cleared work. My clearance was suspended “pending review”. No amount of talking to them would suffice and I was let go from my main employer the next day. This is when I made the decision… I called an old college friend I hadn’t seen in years and spent an evening talking to him and asked him a huge favor. “Yes” was his answer… Over the next 30 days I applied for as many personal and “signature” loans as possible and I deliberately missed the deadline to pay my ex. A contempt hearing was scheduled and 5 days before it occurred I tearfully said goodbye to my girlfriend, boarded a plane, and left the United States forever.

I am now a “deadbeat dad” and thus evil and I cannot return home. Within 10 years I will owe my ex over $1.1 million dollars assuming 10% interest and no additional court penalties. My passport is good until 2018 but if I ever cross a U.S. border I will be arrested and imprisoned as this slave just couldn’t produce enough to satisfy his “massa”. Looking back on all of this (I’ve been abroad now for over a month) I still can’t believe how quickly I went from most trusted American citizen to most hated and it still seems a blur. I fully realize that I could easily serve more time for my ‘crimes’ than I could for murder and the trial for murder would at least involve a jury, rules of evidence, and a presumption of innocence. Let this be a lesson for all those who can’t bring themselves to leave: MURDER is now a better solution than being continuously jailed for child support and the dead do not collect alimony... Just another day in paradise I suppose.

You see I was to discover that this was never really about money as my ex has parents who are very well off and promised to take care of her – she needed nothing. Her parents wrote her lawyer a blank check and said do everything you can to get him, destroy him, and put him in jail. She wanted me in prison, period, and money was simply the method to do it. Family court decrees are always backed with threats of violence and contempt orders that jail, jail, and jail without thought or mercy or reason and the corruption is so deep it can’t change until the U.S. finally and mercifully collapses. The game is decided from the word “go”. I am now desperately trying to find work while in exile, so that I can stop living off the kindness of others. Before I left I served as a Network Architect and I am willing to go anywhere (non west preferred as the tentacles of the U.S. are long and stretch everywhere). We’ll see how it goes…

God be with everyone who has had to go through this or had a friend or loved one who has. The first step to getting my life back is to have a goal and before I left I gave what few friends who didn’t mindlessly turn on me when it all started a special address they can contact me at. When and if the time ever comes and they have a choice of jail or leaving, I will be there to help with a bed and a roof and freedom. Perhaps that will be the only good to come out of this, the ability to help another as I have been helped. I urge anyone reading this to offer the same. Make no mistake, what is needed is a full underground railroad akin to the kind that existed in the days of Harriet Tubman… but no one mourns for men.

Deadbeat Dad #3475739 signing off -

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It’s my assertion that the above testimony epitomizes the myth of the “deadbeat dad”. It’s my assertion that over 90% of all so called deadbeat dads are terrorized by American women who deny them access to their children and turn their children against them with 100% impunity… even though those women are in direct violation of divorce court and family court orders.

The man in the above story is still desperately seeking a Network Architect job in Dubai or South East Asia… Anybody who can recommend resources or job leads can email me at: fwo1111@gmail.com

ForeignWomenOnly

http://foreignwomenonly.blogspot.com/

American/Western Women are Cowards

Us MRA/MGTOW bloggers who rebuke man-hating, or rebuke gluttonous consumption by American women, or rebuke horrible choices by American women, or expose injustice in the schools, or universities, or the work place, or courts, or government are some times accused of being cowards because we blog anonymously. For those who ask, why we don’t express our views in public, I would ask… Did the Jews criticize Hitler in public??… Did those who apposed Stalinism criticize Stalin in public?? Of course, the answer is no, because it was politically incorrect to do so. Criticizing Misandry/Feminism is also politically incorrect. Therefore, we MRA/MGTOW bloggers are promoting the activism of truth and education of other men… what I personally believe is the most effective area of activism at this time in America.

Misandrists/Feminists are the obvious cowards… Promoting hatred against the only group (men) left in America that is politically correct to do so takes absolutely no guts. Besides these obvious acts of cowardliness, American/Western women run from their responsibilities in all facets of society. American/Western women want the benefits of entitlements (IE: special privileges for one group), but run away from the responsibilities that come along with equality. For example, men still suffer over 95% of all work related deaths. If one supports equality (not entitlements), one is willing to role up their sleeves and do an equal amount of dirty (and dangerous) work, but American women are not. In the war in Iraq, men are over 97% of all casualties. As of 9/21/08, there were 4482 total casualties in Iraq… 4373 of those casualties were men. Every American/Western man should be raining down a shit storm on Feminists/Misandrists over the gross discrimination against men!!! I propose deploying divisions comprised entirely of women until women make up 50% of all casualties… then American women would know what true equality is!!!

http://www.icasualties.org/oif/Default.aspx

The fact is that American/Western women are cowards who grab massive entitlements for themselves, justify it with a sense of self supremacy, and cowardly run away from their responsibilities in every facet of society in America. Every right, privilege, liberty and freedom that American women enjoy, has been afforded them by the blood, sweat and tears of American men. Next time a women talks about the equality of women, ask her how many nations have ever been founded, built and defended by women? Ask her if she supports equality in deploying divisions of women to the front lines of war?

ForeignWomenOnly
http://foreignwomenonly.blogspot.com/

Feminists/Misandrists are Anti-American

We men who rebuke man-hating, or rebuke gluttonous consumption by American women, or rebuke horrible choices by American women, or expose injustice in the schools, or universities, or the work place, or courts, or government are often accused of being Anti-American. In reality we men are Anti-Nazi and Anti-Stalinist.

Feminism/Misandry is often referred to as a cancer, and with good reason. Like cancer, Feminism/Misandry is the insidious killer. For a while, sometimes for years the body can function at a high level with cancer. For decades, America continued to function at a high level while the disease of Feminism/Misandry insidiously spread. What does this have to do with being Anti-American, you ask?… For nearly 50 years, Feminists/Misandrists have been spreading the disease of massive entitlements and quotas for women and hatred of men. Men have continued to “work around” these massive entitlements and quotas for women even though entitlements and equality are mutually exclusive… Entitlements and equality are opposites. Grabbing massive entitlements by one group can only be rationalized through a sense of self supremacy… the opposite of equality.

For years we have been slowly seeing the disease of Feminism/Misandry insidiously destroying functional relationships, families, and the children of those families. The symptoms of the illness have been the highest drug abuse rate in the world, the highest incarceration rate in the world, skyrocketing mental illness rate, and skyrocketing school violence rate. We are starting the see the signs of the disease of Feminism/Misandry as men start to realize that it is insidiously destroying their freedom and liberty through unconstitutional laws such as VAWA and IMBRA. The symptoms of the illness are that men are assumed guilty until proven innocent. We are seeing the insidious disease of Feminism/Misandry destroy equality and the very freedoms, liberties, and inalienable rights that America was founded on… the Feminists/Misandrists are really the ones who are Anti-American.

Many men who do not raise their awareness of cancer will, ironically, die from cancer. Many men who do not raise the awareness of Feminism/Misandry will, ironically, be destroyed by it. America as we know it, is in clear and present danger of being destroyed by the insidious cancer of Feminism/Misandry. It’s way past time for all American/Western men to get a serious moral “check-up” of their family values, and political values as it relates to Feminism/Misandry… Those men who don’t need a serious “check-up from the neck up”… allowing the cancer of Misandry/Feminism to continue to go unchecked for another day is simply insane.

ForeignWomenOnly

http://foreignwomenonly.blogspot.com

American/Western Women’s Low Self Esteam

This is a follow-up to my post “How Do I Know That I’m Right”

http://foreignwomenonly.blogspot.com/2008/08/how-do-i-know-that-im-right.html

In that post, I talked about my every day real life observations about how radical Feminism has turned American women away from the best things in life… natural aptitudes, femininity, family, and functional relationships, leaving them with no sense of purpose, self pride, self respect, confidence, or self esteem. I talked about how miserable American/Western women have instead been inspired by Feminists to pursue of happiness through the glutenous consumption of alcohol, drugs, cigarettes, food, risky sex with bad-boy thugs, and excessive shopping.

Of course, accepting these common sense truths would require American/Western women to take responsibility for their own horrible decisions and actions. Instead the Femi-Nazis have used American/Western women’s low self esteem to perpetuate the vicious cycle of blaming men for their problems, and justifying hatred of males. After all, hate groups recruit people with low self esteem, because hating another group temporarily makes them feel better about themselves. American/Western women always accuse foreign women who date American men of having low self esteem. In reality, foreign women bring many great qualities to the table and have a much higher sense of purpose, self pride, self respect, confidence, and self esteem. It’s part of the reason that foreign women have no need to hate men.

Since American/Western women’s low self esteem, the narcissism used to compensate for that low self esteem, and glutenous desire for massive entitlements will never allow them to rebuke hatred of men. American/Western men must be the ones to step up and end this vicious cycle of enable-ment. Otherwise, American/Western women’s will never realize that their low self esteem is just good common sense. After all, choosing to engage in horrible behavior should make one feel bad… even miserable.

ForeignWomenOnly
http://foreignwomenonly.blogspot.com/

Election 2008 – The Anti-Man Election – Part 3

This is a follow up to the first two parts of my post “Election 2008 -The Anti-Man Election”:

http://foreignwomenonly.blogspot.com/2008/09/election-2008-anti-man-election.html

http://foreignwomenonly.blogspot.com/2008/09/election-2008-anti-man-election-part-2.html

In my previous posts, I expressed how both tickets present a clear and present danger to men. While Sarah Palin is not part of the NOW (IE: Nazi) wing of Feminism, she is a supporter of feminism including many of the same myths that the NOW (IE: Nazi) wing works to spread (such as the “glass ceiling“ myth, “only men, no women belong to the good old boys network“ myth, “criticizing women is misogyny“ myth, “women never lie“ myth, Etcetera). I’ve never seen any record of either John McCain or Sarah Palin standing up to the Misandrists/Feminists (Palan, in fact calls herself a Feminist). Neither has ever condemned any of the radical hate speech or lies of Misandry/Feminism.

However, one good thing about this election is that Palin is unmasking the true viciousness and darkness of the NOW (IE: Nazi) wing of Feminism, because Palin is from a different wing of feminism. The Nazi wing of Feminists/Misandrists are showing what a bunch of phonies, hypocrites, and power sows they really are by attacking Palin. Here is a great analysis by Mark Rudov:

http://thenononsenseman.mensnewsdaily.com/

Let’s start with NOW itself:
Sen. Joe Biden is the VP candidate who appeals to women, with his authorship and championing of landmark domestic violence legislation, support for pay equity, and advocacy for women around the world. We recognize the importance of having women’s rights supporters at every level but, like Sarah Palin, not every woman supports women’s rights.

Rudov’s Reaction 1: So, by setting goals and achieving them, Sarah Palin was not exercising her rights? Unless she adheres to the NOW agenda, she is not a supporter of women’s rights? Here’s the problem: NOW continues to suggest that women have special rights that are different from men’s rights. That’s nonsense and purely unconstitutional, but it is a ploy that has been successful in America. Palin has shattered the victim hood creed and “special rights” mantra, and feminists are running for cover.
Rudov’s Reaction 2: Joe Biden is the candidate who appeals to women? Gee, why is that? Could it be that Joe Biden is the father of VAWA, the unconstitutional Violence Against Women Act, the passport for female-on-male violence and false claims of male violence? Yes, that’s the same Joe Biden. The same Joe Biden who admitted in a 1990 Senate Judiciary hearing (Serial No. J-101-80; pp. 171-172), the precursor to VAWA, that he grew up with an abusive sister who was permitted to hit him with absolute impunity — no retaliation allowed, even in self-defense — and he still has the bruises to prove it. Sounds like Stockholm Syndrome to me. This is the VP candidate who appeals to women? If that’s the case, women find victims appealing because they identify as victims. Pure disempowerment.

Senator Barbara Boxer (D-CA):
In an article purposely containing an image of Palin with her right hand extended in Hitlerite fashion, Boxer said about Palin: “She’s an extremist. She’s way out of the mainstream.”

Rudov’s Reaction: Considering that NOW is a fascist organization, a so-called feminist like Boxer portraying Palin as a dictator is laughable. Out of the mainstream? Palin is more like the mainstream than Boxer wants to admit, and the post-RNC poll proves it.

Sally Quinn, Washington Post reporter:
Is she prepared for the all-consuming nature of the job? She is the mother of five children, one of them a four-month-old with Down Syndrome. Her first priority has to be her children. When the phone rings at three in the morning and one of her children is really sick what choice will she make? I’m the mother of only one child, a special needs child who is grown now. I know how much of my time and energy I devoted to his care. He always had to be my first priority. Of course women can be good mothers and have careers at the same time. I’ve done both. Yes, other women in public office have children. House Speaker Nancy Pelosi has five children, but she didn’t get heavily involved in politics until they were older. A mother’s role is different from a father’s.

Rudov’s Reaction: Sally Quinn is violating the NOW playbook with her comment. Women are supposed to be able to make their own choices, manage their own schedules, right? I can’t imagine Sally Quinn making the same comments about a man. Because Sarah Palin has achieved without victim hood, any means to tear her down is justifiable.

Maureen Dowd, Op-Ed columnist, New York Times:
The movie ends with the former beauty queen shaking out her pinned-up hair, taking off her glasses, slipping on ruby red peep-toe platform heels that reveal a pink French-style pedicure, and facing down Vladimir Putin in an island in the Bering Strait. Putting away her breast pump, she points her rifle and informs him frostily that she has some expertise in Russia because it’s close to Alaska. “Back off, Commie dude,” she says. “I’m a much better shot than Cheney.”

Rudov’s Reaction: This diatribe comes from the proud author of a book called Are Men Necessary? Again, because Sarah Palin has achieved without victim hood, Dowd believes any means to tear her down is justifiable.

Ellen Goodman, Boston Globe columnist:
Talk about rolling the dice. The idea was to connect to the Hillary supporters. These women, dismayed by the idea that the experienced female was passed over for a fresh male face, were supposed to be won over by a patently inexperienced female fresh face. Never mind that this feisty working mom leans — no, falls — right on social issues. You go, Clara Thomas. Oops, I mean you go girl.

Rudov’s Reaction: Unless a woman falls “left” on social issues, she’s disqualified as a representative of women? This is pure NOW fascism. Fall in lockstep, or face excoriation.

Gloria Steinem, feminist organizer:
But here is even better news: It won’t work. This isn’t the first time a boss has picked an unqualified woman just because she agrees with him and opposes everything most other women want and need. Feminism has never been about getting a job for one woman. It’s about making life more fair for women everywhere. It’s not about a piece of the existing pie; there are too many of us for that. It’s about baking a new pie.

Rudov’s Reaction: Unqualified woman? A female governor in a macho state, with an 80% approval rating, is unqualified? Opposes everything most other women want and need? Sorry, NOW doesn’t speak for most women, and the post-RNC poll proves it. Making life more fair for women everywhere? Women already control civil and reproduction rights and can become anything they want. What more “fairness” would Steinem like her victimhood crusade to accomplish?
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So, at least I found one positive thing about The Anti-Man Election of 2008:>)

ForeignWomenOnly
http://foreignwomenonly.blogspot.com/

Doom and Gloom?

I want to take this opportunity to clarify some of my philosophies.

There are many parts to my life such as family, friends, relationships, hobbies, and work. I discovered “Going My Own Way” years before I read about it on the Internet. I thoroughly enjoy life, and have many interests including: motor cycle riding, hiking, boating, fishing, sports, scuba diving, surfing, swimming, and traveling. Posting on forums and in the FWO blog is a very small part of my life. I have plans in motion to expat the Philippines and live the high life in an island paradise of non-man-hating women… Contrary to popular belief, you can own land in both Mexico and the Philippines, if you know the legal loopholes.

So, I could simply say “I’ve went my own way, life is good”. However, I choose to fight against what I believe is wrong. For me, “Going Your Own Way” should not be the end game in fighting Misandry/Feminism; it should be the first step in a journey of a million miles. Therefore, I’m doing a few things:

1) Donating money to Anti-Misandry forums. I started this year, and plan to do it every year.
2) Donating money to political groups who are proponents of increasing liberty and freedom (the opposite of what Feminists/Misandrists are doing).
3) Donating my time to the FWO blog to provide a unique perspective in educating men about foreign women and the truth about Feminism/Misandry and American/Western women.
4) Donating my time to help men personally. When I find a man who want’s to do things the right way, I spread the truth. I’m currently helping a couple of different men.
5) Destroying Feminist/Misandrist myths when/where ever possible.

Many of my posts are very negative, because one of my long term goals is to take the many complex and convoluted issues of Misandry/Feminism and boil them down to talking points that men everywhere can understand.

I believe that 99% of men can and will follow logic, if they hear it over and over again. Therefore, if complex, convoluted issues are broken down into talking points for which there is no logical argument against, eventually more and more men will understand Misandry/Feminism. If even 5-10% of men in the general population ever understand Misandry/Feminism (and see past the name calling and shaming language), then Misandry/Feminism will be finished!!!

The problem is that American/Western men are trained from the time they are babies to please women. While fathers work 8 to 16 hours per day to support the family, modern mothers are teaching little boys to please women. Then boys go to American/Western schools with over 90% female teachers. Modern female teachers are teaching boys to please women. When boys turn on American TV, they are taught that all men are idiots, and that only men who always please women are of any value. Then young men go to colleges where they continue to be indoctrinated in pleasing women. Then American/Western men enter the work place where they observe women receiving endless entitlements. When men date American/Western women they are taught that they will only get dates (and only get sex eventually) if they provide women with endless entitlements. Married men are taught that they will only receive occasional sex if they provide endless entitlements to their wives.

Hence, when most American/Western men are confronted with name calling and shaming language, they revert back to the little boy who was trained his whole life to please women. Most American/Western men have become so passive that they are dysfunctional. In my opinion, the only way to arm these men is to give them laser sharp talking points for which there is no logical argument. Logic is the one thing that 99% of men can and will eventually respond to. However, men are going to need to hear theses logical talking points over and over before they can overcome a lifetime of programming (most men need to be de-programmed).

Remember one thing… Misandrists/Feminists are terrified of us strong men because we stick to logic and will not revert back to little boys when confronted with name calling and shaming language. If Misandrists/Feminists are terrified of men like us who posses laser sharp points for which there are no logical arguments against… then, are these laser sharp points not our most effective weapon at this time???

In conclusion, I would say to those who accuse me of spreading “doom and gloom” that I’m not just citing “radical cases” of women/politicians doing evil, I’m in fact talking about our every day real life observations and backing up those observations with related stories (see my blog to learn how women have harmed me and other men I know). I have my eyes open to every day real life observations, and can not be bull-shit-ed. In other words, I will not bury my head in the sand, will not stay inside the fem-matrix, and have in fact swallowed the red pill… so don’t piss down my back and tell me it’s raining.

–ForeignWomenOnly
http://foreignwomenonly.blogspot.com/

Election 2008 – The Anti-Man Election – Part 2

This is part 2 of my original post:
http://foreignwomenonly.blogspot.com/2008/09/election-2008-anti-man-election.html

I think that men will have their liberty and freedom further slashed no matter which ticket wins. However, I do not believe that we can do nothing about it. Conversely, my point was that ten’s of thousands of men are giving their time to work for each Obama and McCain, and men are giving hundreds of millions of dollars of their money to each Obama and McCain. Therefore, men can organize as MRAs. I asserted that it’s my theory that men do not organize as MRAs, because “most men don’t even realize that war has been declared on them yet“.

I’m raising hell in my posts because I believe that nothing will be accomplished, if men don’t raise hell… nearly 50 years of “soft men”, “sensitive men”, “man-boys”, “man-ginas”, and men who think with little heads instead of their big heads has allowed a supremacist group (Feminists/Misandrists) to hijack political power in the USA with disastrous consequences… I want to help educate men before a total collapse is inevitable… and I see that time is running out. I’m not trying to make men depressed with my posts, I’m trying to encourage all men to be “piss-off-able”… In other words to get angry enough to get off of their asses and do something (a lot like men did when the Japanese bombed pearl harbor). I assert that education/awareness of the truth about Misandry/Feminism is men’s most effective area of activism at this time” (to increase the number of men who realize that war has been declared against them, so that men will eventually declare war back).

As I see it, the reason that the “Nazi” wing of the Feminists are angry about Sarah Palin is because they fear that a “Stalinist” wing Feminist (Sarah Palin) will become the first woman VP. As I see it, our current predicament is… If we side with McCain/Palin because we don’t want the Nazi wing of Feminism, Obama/Biden, to win and McCain/Palin win we will then be still be stuck with the Stalinist wing of Feminism… the lesser of two evils is still evil.

Regarding voting records… Here are links to voting records:

http://www.votesmart.org/

http://projects.washingtonpost.com/congress/

http://www.senate.gov/reference/common/faq/how_to_votes.htm

The only presidential candidate that I have found who doesn’t seem to support further slashing the liberty and freedom of men is Bob Barr:

http://www.bobbarr2008.com/press/press-releases/120/pay-women-equal-wages-through-the-marketplace-bob-barr-tells-bar ack-obama/

ForeignWomenOnly
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Election 2008 – The Anti-Man Election

Truth be told, the 2008 Presidential election should be called “The Anti-Man Election”. The wheels are in motion for the inevitability that the remaining rights and freedoms of men will be slashed even further in the coming four years. Instead of slowing the bleeding in the War Against Men, men should prepare to have their blood spilled, in unprecedented amounts in the next four years.

First the obvious Anti-Man ticket… Barack Obama and Joe Biden. Barack Obama is an obvious Anti-Man candidate, always promoting Misandrist/Feminist myths, pandering to women while ignoring men. His running mate, Joe Biden, is the Anti-Man poster man-gina, sponsoring hate legislation against men such as VAWA and IMBRA, and spending billions of dollars in federal funds to promote hate against men. Biden’s has gained massive political power by promoting Misandrist/Feminist myths such as “all men are assumed guilty until proven innocent”, “women are never guilty” and “women don’t make false accusations”.

Now, perhaps the less obvious Anti-Man ticket… John McCain and Sarah Palin. John McCain also promotes Misandrist/Feminist myths, panders to women while ignoring men. John McCain’s top advisor is Carly Fiorina, a Misandrist/Feminist who blames men for all of her miserable failings as a former business leader. Here are Fiorina’s major “accomplishments”:

• HP’s stock sank 56 percent on her watch.
• Told Wall Street HP could produce 15 percent revenue growth in 2001. It fell 7 percent.
• In August 2004, when sales fell way short of forecasts, Fiorina blamed embarrassing problems with an internal computer system and surprisingly weak customer demand, then fired three top executives
• Fiorina cut 15,000 jobs at HP (Punished the workers for her own incompetence).
• Fiorina took $51 million severance pay / stocks when she was fired from HP.

John McCain’s running mate, Sarah Palin, was chosen to pander to women and because she won‘t be criticized by the media. Sarah Palin is a card carrying Feminist (member of Feminists for Life), endlessly shrieking about “the glass ceiling”, another Feminist/Misandrist myth. Palin hasn’t even completed one term as governor of Alaska, so there is no way to know what kind of executive she is. Her only other executive experience was mayor of a town with 50 city employees, nothing that comes close to qualifying her for Vice President. Also, she’s under investigation as governor of Alaska. The inquiry boils down to whether Palin used her power to have a state commissioner fired for refusing to dismiss her former brother-in-law from the state police. The case centers on Walt Monegan, the public safety commissioner who was let go in July. After his dismissal, he said he had felt pressured by the governor’s office to fire state trooper Mike Wooten, who had been in a messy divorce and child custody battle with Palin’s sister. Monegan said members of the governor’s staff and her husband, Todd Palin, had called and questioned him about Wooten.

Ten’s of thousands of men are giving their time to work for each Obama and McCain. Men are giving hundreds of millions of dollars of their money to each Obama and McCain… Both candidates support further slashing of men’s rights and freedoms. At the same time, relatively few men (Outside of MRAs/MGTOWs) are investing any time or any money in efforts to help men fight the “Axis of Misandry”. Could there be any more clear evidence that “most men don’t even realize that war has been declared on them yet“? Could there be any more clear evidence that “education/awareness of the truth about Misandry/Feminism is men’s most effective area of activism at this time”?

ForeignWomenOnly
http://foreignwomenonly.blogspot.com/

American/Western Women Should Be Exiled

There’s a new, so called, “reality” TV show called “Exiled”. In the show, 18-20 year old girls who sit around their parent’s house leaching from their parents, and absolutely refusing to do any work, are exiled to places like Africa, Peru, and the Arctic to live with 18-20 year old native girls who work hard every day. Like all so called “reality” shows, it’s as fake as professional wrestling, and the girls agree to be on the show for their 15 minutes of fame and a possible chance for future TV shows, magazines, and Etcetera.

Even though the show is mostly fake, the idea of exiling American/Western women is a great idea. Most American/Western women are spoiled brats (children in women’s bodies really), and should be exiled to places like Africa, Siberia, Iraq, Peru, and the Philippines for two years. Two years in a country that gives women no entitlements, no special privileges, and has no quotas would be great wake up call for teaching American/Western women about true equality.

Two years in a country that can not afford to pay half of the population (women) to do nothing would teach American/Western women about the real work. A country where women have to do their fair share of work would teach American/Western women a real work ethic.

Two years in a non-man-hating country might teach American/Western women how to have functional relationships with men. It would teach American women that American men are not idiots and morons as depicted in the American media. American/Western women would learn that foreign women consider American/Western men to be the top men in world, and that foreign women are lined up to marry American/Western men. American/Western women would learn what it’s like to appreciate everything that they are given, and appreciate good men. idiots and morons as depicted in the American media.

Two years in a country where family is the most important thing in life might teach American/Western women the pride and satisfaction of being much more community minded and much less self centered.

Two years in a country where spirituality is an important part of life might teach American/Western women that relationships and marriage are to be considered not only a commitment between a man and a woman, but also a commitment to a higher power. It might teach America/Western women to stop considering themselves as the highest power in the universe.

Most importantly, exiling American/Western women would teach American/Western men many valuable lessons too. It would teach men that we don’t really need women. More and more men are starting to learn this and are GOING THEIR OWN WAY, enjoying life with nothing to do with American/Western women. It would teach men to think with their big head instead of their little head… that they won’t die if they go some time without sex (after all 95%of all married men in America are going with very little or no sex and are still alive)… More and more men, even young men with raging hormones, are starting to learn this and are no longer a slave to the power of the vagina. A two year vacation from being demeaned, demonized, and marginalized might teach men to get a set of balls, expect a lot more good things from women, and accept a lot less crap from women… More and more men are starting to learn this and are no longer a slave to the power of women’s big mouths, shaming language, and manipulation.

Unfortunately, we won’t exile American/Western women any time soon… However, men can and should stop, take some time to think about everything going on, make some real life observations, and do everything else listed above.

ForeignWomenOnly
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Why Foreign Women Are Better

I’ve said a million times, all opinions about foreign women should be based on several months of first hand experience with foreign women in their country. If a man has several months of first hand negative experiences with foreign women in their country or simply doesn’t want anything to do with any woman, I can respect his decision. However, it should be based on his own experiences, not on somebody else’s opinion.

This is a follow-up to my post “Are Foreign Women Really Better”. http://foreignwomenonly.blogspot.com/2008/07/are-foreign-women-really-better-than.html

In my original post above, I talked about some of the myths that American/Western women are spreading about American men (who date foreign women) and the foreign women that we date.

I also see a lot of mis-information from American men, including some MRA/MGTOW men regarding foreign women. Here are my personal observations about why foreign women are better based on spending a substantial amount of time in foreign countries:

• Importance of the family – In countries such as Mexico, countries of South America, the Philippines, and others, family is the most important thing in life. In countries where family is the most important thing in life, women are much more community minded and much less self centered than in America. In countries where family is the most important thing in life, fathers are still respected, and men are not hated or marginalized. Therefore, girls are taught from a young age how to have a functional relationship with men. In America, the Misandrists/Feminists destroyed the family nearly fifty years ago and replaced the importance of the family with self centered-ness, shallow-ness, and narcissism. The destruction of tens of millions of American families has created tens on millions of dysfunctional American girls who have grown up without knowing their father or having any positive male role model. Girls are taught from a young age how to manipulate men, that all men are idiots, and men are to be disrespected.

• Respect for men – In the non-man hating countries mentioned, men are still respected, and there is no hostility between men and women. Wife’s show respect for their husbands, and girls learn to respect men from a young age. Men are not disrespected or marginalized in the media. There is no misandric hate speech spreading lies such as: “all men are pigs”, “all men are rapists”, “all boys are future rapists”, “a woman needs a man like a fish needs a bicycle”, “anything a man can do a woman can do better” (truly female supremacist rhetoric). In America, we are living in the “Axis of Misandry” where men are vehemently, and venomously disrespected, marginalized and portrayed as idiots in the media. In America little girls are taught that men are morons, only to be used as walking wallets.

• Work ethic – In foreign countries girls and boys are expected to do work, including cooking, cleaning, caring for siblings and earning their own spending money. In many countries, it’s not uncommon for girls to prepare dinner for the entire family every day, and do laundry by hand. Hard work builds character. Unfortunately, most American girls do little or no work while being handed massive entitlements from birth. This leads to unrealistic expectations, an unrealistic sense of entitlement, and narcissism in American/Western women.

• Spirituality – In foreign countries religion is often an important part of life. Hence, relationships and marriage are considered to be not only a commitment between a man and a woman, but also a commitment to a higher power. In America women consider themselves as the highest power in the universe.

• Economics – Many men, even MRA/MGTOW men have the misconception that foreign women are better only because of economic conditions, and the chance to improve their economic condition by marring an American man. While it’s true that scammers and “gold robbers” exist everywhere, foreign women are generally much more willing to reciprocate than American women. Reciprocating is not consistent with being a “gold robber”. Most foreigners, while seemingly poor to Americans, are actually happier with their lives than most Americans. This is true due to the above facets of foreign culture. Contrary to popular belief, most foreign women do not want to come to America… also true due to the above facets of foreign culture. The only main factor of the economies of foreign countries is that while the cancer of Misandry/Feminism has infected every country in the world, the cancer can only spread in the countries that are rich enough to essentially pay half of the country (women) to do nothing.

Many men have the misconception that the economy and the other above factors in foreign countries are used “to keep women under control”. Fact is that with the above factors men do not need to “keep women under control” because women control themselves… a concept that is unimaginable in America.

ForeignWomenOnly
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